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Parkinson's Sleep Crisis: Gabapentin, Urinal Bags, and the Night That Finally Worked

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Darla in the Desert: hard‑earned lessons from life, the internet, and a desert that melts your patience first. Send ice! Notes From the Guider-in-Chief I came up with that title — Guider‑in‑Chief — sitting on the couch around midnight, finishing a movie I only half‑watched, trying to figure out why that night felt different from the several bad ones before it. It wasn’t magic. It was the living room. And it wasn’t just atmosphere. There’s something functional happening when hubby sleeps in the living room versus the bedroom. In the recliner, his whole posture opens up differently —  the body is no longer fighting itself the way it does when he’s curled in bed. I also have a little more physical space to work: room to set up the urinal bag, adjust his position, manage the environment. I’m not just hoping for a good night. I’m actually able to set one up a little more conveniently than in our room.  That’s when I understood what I’d been doingf...